Q: So my buddy joined a frat and he had to quit because it was affecting his grades. Now he is finding that he is having trouble meeting girls. How should I help him?

A: My advice is to pick up “How to be a Wingman” from your local bookstore and do your buddy a solid. But, if by “my buddy” you mean yourself then here’s something you or “your buddy” can do:

1. Make a list of your hobbies, your passions, your favorite pastimes
2. Go to places that revolve around your list
3. Meet girls with the same interests

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Q: I feel like since I have been in college it has been very hard for me to be myself. I have been so caught up in trying to fit in and find out which group I belong to, whether it is with the frat guys or the book worms. Now I am just at a stand still because I don’t even know who I am anymore. How do I find myself again?

A: Honey, this is college. If you’re still searching for a “group” you need to get out of that mentality or you’re never going to be happy. You are you, and college is the last frontier you have to completely be yourself before real life forces you to conform to get a job and keep. It’s the last place where you can openly hate certain people and make it known without it really affecting you and the last place you can wear very questionable outfits and say outlandish things with a childlike temper, and STILL [Read more...]

Q: My boyfriend of a few months said that he wouldn’t have sex with me unless I shaved my lady parts. I don’t feel comfortable with doing something like that and I know it’s unhealthy, but he still thinks it’s disgusting. What should I do?

A: Whoa, whoa, whoa! I am baffled by your quandary! My first question for you girl is does HE shave HIS parts? And also, have you asked him to explain why it’s so important to him that you shave yours? How long have you two been together and how deeply involved is your sex life for him to demand that you shave your lady parts? It’s natural; it’s your body, not to mention shaving down there is in the long run bad for you. Does he not like it because he watches a lot of porn? Because I [Read more...]